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How to fist a woman?
I get often asked : how to learn to give fisting to a woman? Not to repeat the same story all the time, I decided to write this text. Dirst of all I decided to look what peoples write about this over the Web. And when I find and read some manuals I was horrified.
It’s quite obviously that the overwhelming majority of these manuals was written by men. Because its style and content like an instruction manual for automobile repair: “put some motor oil on the piston pin, paste it into the hole of connecting-rod, and press it by hand...”. I don’t know how can this instructions help with automobile repair, but it's impossible to learn taking delight with women that way.
That’s why I decided to express my own opinion for this theme. Although I have big and very positive experience in this theme, it will be some difficult to realize it, because in the moment when I acted this way, my mind half switched off, and describe something or give any recommendations, I can’t, I simply haven’t condition.
First of all we should identify what we’ll talk about, I mean what is fisting. One of definition which I found in the internet was “fisting – is penetration in vaginal or anal hole by hand fingers or by fist”. First, I want exclude right away fisting to men, I don’t understand something in this.
Second, I categorically against word “penetration”. Meaning of fisting, at my look, is not penetrating into some hole, I think its mean caress and give pleasure to her. And third, I don’t think that caress by two or three fingers can deliver same pleasure as by whole fist.
Finally, I’d definite this as: “fisting is a way to caress (stimulate) women by fist of hand placed into vaginal or anal inlet (hole)”.
Of course this definition not snow whole meaning too. Even considering my positive experience in this theme, I can’t allege that fisting is absolutely safe action. Especially for beginners. So it need maximum carefully from both partners, and accordingly, it need very high level of trusties between partners. Usually men don’t like speak about love and feelings, but I think that fisting is highest form of sexual contact, and only one way to start experiments in this direction is when relation between partners can be described by words “love” and “feelings”. (of course if one of partners not is international Honoured Master of Sports ).
Potential of women organism in high lever depend from that, what woman like to call “feeling”, or I can try to call it instinctively motivation. Just for example. I can easily lay on the back with open mouth, and my partner will with all ones might drive his penis in my throat to the end of one, I will suffocating, but this motion will give me biggest pleasure. But I absolutely unable to swallow even tip of a dildo.
Before start learning something, you must answer the question, do you need this learning, if yes –what for. In many times it hardly to learn fisting and it can be needed long period training.
Make a go of it possible in case well understanding of target of this efforts, and if process of training will give you a pleasure. All the more in that case it needs efforts both of partners.
Very often main obstacle in that question is fear and unwillingness of women makes experiments in this direction. So far as I walk this way, I try make women change their mind with logic and examples.
Fear of this experiments absolutely unreasonable. Women born children, so our natural provide that vagina can stretch to very considerable size, exceed size of hand of you partner.
If hand of your partner fully penetrates into vagina, it can make inside very various motions, caress its very secluded corners and deliver big delight. Just show me men who able curve and unbend his own penis! Of course physiology, degree of sensitivity and location of sensitive areas can be different from women to women, but about myself, I can say that, I able having orgasm about 20-30 minutes with that kind of caress. Though it can be more continuous orgasm if I shouldn’t have relaxation, after which I can begin from the scratch.
As for anal fisting, it can give pleasure too. Anal and vaginal holes joined by rather thin septum, and hand placed into anus excellently stimulate sensitive areas of vagina, but thanks to septum it happened more softly and gentle and it add pleasure for sensitive areas of anal hole, which can call more powerful pleasure for much women.
But anal fisting some complicating by necessity of previous cleaning bowels, there are exist sufficient modes and though this procedure not pleasant, but very healthy for organism.
Fisting giving not only unique physically pleasure, but huge moral satisfaction too. Women’s nature has aspiration to be given in men’s mighty. When the man’s hand in me, I feeling myself in his mighty with highest degree. Skills to accept men’s hand and be in rush because of that command admiration of men and definite my superiority over other women in man’s point of view. Truly it gives pleasure to me, understanding that I can much more than other women.
Except possibility to get incomparable with something physically and moral pleasure, in favor of fisting is argument of quite different character. Let us suppose, your partner want to try make fisting to you, but you very afraid of this experiment, and you don’t want do it. If men, and not only men, want to try something, but he not allowed doing this, his wish only grows. And it will all come out in any way, and he’ll find a way to realize his wish. I if you don’t help him, he’ll do it without you, want you?
But in other side if you bend before his wishes and will successful in training, he will know, that before he can do that with other woman, he should spend much time and efforts to teach her the same. As result, his banal lazy will good obstacle for possible unfaithfulness.
Also, I want to deny widespread error. Ostensibly the woman who practices fisting has so stretched vagina that cannot take pleasure in usual sex, also that the man does not take pleasure in usual sex with such woman. On the basis of a private experience I wish to declare that it is a parcel of rubbish! I can test orgasm from fisting two man's hands simultaneously, and in 15 minutes after that to receive not less strong orgasm from usual traditional sex. And even the size of a man's penis has no special value. The main thing – not the size, and ability correctly to use it. According to my partner he too does not test the slightest problems.
All these arguments can convince the woman to try fisting, but may be cannot relieve her of instinctive fear. Reason she will understand benefit of such experiment, but organism work operates not only reason. You only will start it to caress, but she will already be in pressure, expecting from each your touch of unpleasant sensations or a pain. Certainly, in such situation it will be difficult to you to achieve any positive result. Therefore you should put a maximum of efforts to relieve her if not of fear, then from pressure. YOU should cause in her sexual inspiration, and at women it is defined by set of the circumstances which often do not have to sex any relation. Prevent it can anything you like, beginning from thoughts that tomorrow it is necessary to rise early for work and it is necessary to have time to sleep, and finishing an tummy rumbling from too plentiful supper. You should try to analyze in advance a situation and to try to relieve her from most parts of distracting thoughts and problems, to create conditions in which she will feel absolutely comfortable.
Besides, to move in a direction of fisting it is better to begin in advance and gradually. I will risk even to come up with absolutely seditious idea: it is better, if you start to prepare her for it, without discussing with her your plan as a whole. Simply accustom her to receive from you oral caresses in combination to caresses by fingers. Achieve, that she will receive pleasure from such caresses and she self would ask you about it. It is not excluded that all will occur by itself, and you will start to be engaged fisting, at all without knowing, as this action is called.
Let’s talk about how to begin make fisting. It’s mostly for men. You think, I will tell to you about with what it is necessary to grease fingers, how, when and where they need to be put in? No, it is necessary to begin not with it! The first and the most important that you should to know, it that your overall objective – give to the woman the greatest possible pleasure! And not penetrate a hand in one of her holes. You should concentrate completely on this purpose and not think about anything else.
If you will follow this purpose, let even neither from the first, nor from the tenth time at you it will not turn out the good fisting, she will ask you to repeat it again and again until you will not comprehend this science in perfection. And if you get regardless of obstacles, you will cause her in unpleasant sensations, and next time she will avoid in every possible way similar experiments.
Before to start experiment, it is necessary to be prepared well. Hands should be washed carefully up. Nails very shortly cut out also are processed by a nail file. Any keen edges on nails should not be in event! Agnails need to be removed too. All extraneous subjects, rings, hours and other need to be removed, even if they have no keen edges. If you half mad on cleanliness, use disposable rubber gloves. And still, I nearly have not forgotten one very important circumstance which for some reason is not mentioned in similar instructions. The man should be absolutely sober! The woman can drink a little something alcohol, but the man should refrain from alcohol categorically.
Beforehand prepare lubricant (gel), it all time should be near at hand. Gel should be on a water basis, and it is desirable without any additives. By my experience, any additives in gel or not give effect at all, or in general way to unpleasant consequences. To buy suitable gel it is possible in sex shop or in a drugstore. It is possible to use and usual Vaseline, and sometimes it delivers even more pleasures. But if you only start to do fisting, it is better to use gel, it more liquid and has the best greasing properties.
It is necessary to begin with kisses. Long and gently kiss and caress all favorites places of the partner, without passing in the beginning to genitals. Then gradually go down more low and arrange more conveniently your lips opposite to her clitoris – there you should spend a lot of time. (For women: if you want, that your partner with pleasure was engaged with you in oral sex it is better to depilate from intimate places.)
When you have arranged the head between feet of her, do not hurry up to insert hands inside. It’s better to extend your hands upwards and caress her breast. Long and diligently caress by tongue her clitoris. Now your task – make her in such condition when she will start to groan from pleasure and move herself towards to your tongue. When it will occur, start to caress by tongue not only clitoris, but also her sexual lips, moistening with saliva. Already it is possible to lower one hand, plentifully to moisten one finger with a saliva and very gently and cautiously enter it inside.
All of you time should follow one simple principle – each your action, each your step should strengthen excitation of the partner. If at some moment you feel that her excitation weakens, immediately recede on a step back.
When your finger will appear inside, try to stroke it a forward wall of a vagina on distance of 5-6 centimeters from an input - a so-called point «G». Only it is not necessary to search there anything. When it will be necessary, it all will be, and now you should think only of giving to the woman pleasure.
Note for men: It is necessary to understand that when the woman lies on a back having moved apart feet, and your language caress her clitoris, she don’t what you there do by fingers. Simply it is not visible to her. And she’s unable to count by vagina how many fingers you put in.
When I had first time fisting, I felt it so. It was long caressing of clitoris. I was very strongly excited and at some moment had felt a finger in a vagina. Then something occurring, and through some time I in general haven’t cease to distinguish sensations, all of them have merged in one indescribable pleasure. After, my partner told to me that his hand has easily entered into me completely and from the first try.
I think that all is defined by excitation degree. Even now, when I have trained so that without effort I can accept in a vagina two man's hands simultaneously, it is difficult and unpleasant to me to accept even one hand without corresponding preparation and preliminary caresses. It seems that in process of excitation the vagina not only allocates greasing, but also itself extends and opens.
So, if you have successfully got a finger into a vagina, and started to caress a point «G» and excitation of the partner from it only has amplified, try to add one more finger. Only don’t forget to moisten with its saliva properly. If all goes well, after a second it is possible to add the third, and then and the fourth fingers.
But it’s necessary to watch constantly that is enough lubricating. The vagina itself has greasing, but in this case it will be insufficiently and it is necessary to add a saliva. If fingers more than four natural greasing and a saliva will insufficiently and it is necessary to use special gel.
In the course of your training there can be unforeseen "trouble". Your partner can reach orgasm earlier, than you will achieve your result. Well, it’s no trouble. The main thing – that was pleasant to her, and that next time she has wanted to repeat this experiment.
We have reached the moment when you continue to caress her clitoris by tongue, and your four fingers are in vagina. Thus your partner is in a condition of strong excitation and vigorously moves in step to your movements. Now start to move fingers forward-back, as though towards to her movements, gradually increasing amplitude of these movements. Do not forget to watch greasing and do not apply force! Fingers should move easily and freely! Try as it is possible to excite the partner more strongly. If it is necessary, help itself a free hand, caressing her breast. She should begin to spit vagina on your hand.
If all occurs so, at some moment you will feel that your four fingers have completely entered into a vagina together with bones, and only the finger out aside prevents to enter whole fist inside entirely. Now it is necessary to press finger to the rests, properly grease a hand with gel and continue movement. Most likely, already the hand will easily slip inside and you can start to master internal space. At this stage gel is already necessarily, and in a considerable quantity. Without it you only will cause unpleasant sensations in the partner and at you it will turn out nothing.
If you feel that your palm completely enters inside, bend fingers. Most likely at you it will turn out automatically. It’s no necessary to rest against a vagina wall by the extended finger, except unpleasant sensations it will not cause anything in the partner. Bend fingers so that their tips have appeared in that place which you just caressed – near a point «G». Then bends of fingers you will feel big firm hillock, under the form and the size reminding a head of a penis. It is a uterus neck. It is not necessary to try to thrust anything in an aperture in the middle of it hillock. It does not cause any positive sensations. At least in me does not cause. If someone asserts the return, or there other anatomy, or it simply visionary that in my opinion, more possibly.
Such position of a hand most conveniently also can deliver to the woman the maximum pleasure. Now it is possible to try the basic movements. If it is inside very close, most likely it will turn out hardly. Movements can be three types – bending and unbending fingers, rotary motions of a hand and movement forward-back. Any combination of three these types of movements will be optimum, but more definitely each pair should choose for itself independently, taking into account the specific features.
And once again I wish to repeat main principle: Fisting is not only physical action, but also is sincere-emotional. Therefore you should concentrate completely on giving to the woman the maximum pleasure in all possible ways. And not aspire to thrust a hand into her immediately anyway. And then at you all will fine!
Certainly, we have considered a situation only as a whole. All people different, at all the physiological features, the scheme of behavior and the vital circumstances. In each specific case it is necessary to understand separately. I have tried to describe a certain general situation, having mentioned as much as possible circumstances, influencing at this situation. If your case differs from this general scheme, try to analyse the unique situation taking into account the resulted circumstances and arguments, and find the own decision.
And still, it is necessary to mean that I not the doctor, and in the reasoning am guided by sexual and life experience, but not by medical knowledge. Therefore it is necessary to understand that you carry out all experiments exclusively at own risk, under the responsibility, and in the presence of any doubts or exceptional circumstances, it is necessary to refrain of experiments and consult with the expert (medical).
Written by Marcella
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